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How to Use 1-800-Dateline

  • Dail your Chatline phone number.
  • Record you chat line phone greeting.
  • Listen to local men's greetings and respond to messages you like.
  • Start live chat dating!

Important Information About 1-800-Dateline

What Kind of Men Will I Meet On 1-800-Dateline?

Men from all walks of lives and backgrounds use 1-800-Dateline, all looking for somebody to connect with. They are funny, active and local people who just want to find that one person that takes their breath away. Don’t worry, you’re all in the same boat here!


Will it Cost Me Anything?

Women will never have to pay to use 1-800-Dateline. Every woman also qualifies for a free membership, which can offer you an enhanced experience. The beauty of it is you never have to share any payment or personal information to gain access to this membership, either.


Is a Membership Necessary?

Technically, no. But you should definitely consider it! Without a free membership, women can still use 1-800-Dateline and still have an exciting time! With a membership, however, you’re opening yourself up to a variety of extra perks including Hot Listing, saved greetings and much more!



Feel empowered and sexy with 1-800-Dateline!

With Free Membership for female callers, you are never going to be deprived of excitement, online intimacy and sparks galore. As mentioned above, it is not necessary to have a membership in order to use 1-800-Dateline, but it comes with an array of perks which we will go into detail now. After all, it is free!

Benefits of having a membership include saving your best connections to your Hot List to view again at a later time, having the chance to talk to people you’ve missed whilst on another call/chat and saving your personalized greetings. With these benefits, you’re sure to get the most out of something you don’t have to pay for in the first place!

Setting up your free membership could not be easier. Follow these simple instructions:

Dial 1-800-Dateline


Once you have identified yourself as a female, key ‘1’ to gain access to your free membership.

The system will go through the benefits of your free membership. If you’re happy, confirm that you are 18+.

You're Done
Our system will generate your membership, giving you the ability to sign in and get chatting!

Hot Tips for Women

Be Yourself!

The point of 1-800-Dateline live chat is to have fun and find yourself someone to really connect with. This isn’t possible if you’re putting yourself across as someone you’re not. This is why it’s important to be yourself and just be proud of who you are! You’ll find that men are attracted more towards honesty rather than fakery.

Own the Conversation

Make an impact on your connection and stand out by owning the conversation on your own terms. Make sure the conversation flows in a way that keeps you comfortable, otherwise it’ll stagnate, or you may feel pressured.

Don’t Tolerate Abuse

You should never be expected to tolerate abusive/aggressive behavior and language. If an experience has left you feeling uncomfortable, you can block a person by keying ‘7’ and by pressing ‘7’ again, you can report the account to Customer Services.

Memorable Phone Greetings

The whole point of a phone greeting is to make you stand out from the crowd! Don’t follow any clichés and go down the typical route. Be original but be interesting! With that in mind, take a look at some of these tips.

Clear and Concise

We cannot stress this enough. Unclear greetings or greetings drowned out by background noise will gather no attention, so make sure you record yours somewhere quiet.

Honesty is the Best Policy

It’s true, ladies! Men will always prefer honesty. If you’re only using 1-800-Dateline for a fling, say so! There’s no point in advertising yourself to be interested in something you have no intentions of going through with.

Say Cheese!

Don’t forget to smile during your recording, as traits like smiling can be picked up on in your voice. The cheerier, the better!

Bold and Confident

Being direct, to-the-point and bold will always serve you well! If you can be confident in your approach, you’re more than likely to strike a spark with somebody!

1-800-Dateline FAQs for Women

So that is the down-low on being a female member on 1-800-Dateline! Are you crystal clear on what your experiences could be? If not, below is a handy list of FAQs with answers that might be able to iron out any curiosities. If you’re still unsure, feel free to give our Customer Services team a call, they’ll be more than happy to talk to you!

Women Using 1-800-Dateline

Is a Membership Required to Use This Service as a Woman?

Women can use 1-800-Dateline with or without a membership – but without a membership, you miss out on some exclusive perks such as offline messaging and hot-listing. One massive advantage is that women can join with a membership for absolutely nothing! Just sign up and away you go!

Are There Any Costs Involved?

Absolutely not. 1-800-Dateline will never ask women for any payment information when using the service. If you receive any correspondence asking for such, you can report it to one of our team.

Forgotten Your Membership Number/Passcode?

Not to worry at all! You can give our customer service team a quick call at 1-800-777-1249. For no other purpose but your security, we will ask you to confirm some personal information that you used to sign up with the service. Once they are confirmed, the agent you speak to will be happy to divulge the information you’re looking for.

What’s is 1-800-Dateline’s Mission?

Our phonelines have been hot and active since back in 1990, allowing keen singles to meet in their local area for discreet fun and possibly more. There’s a serious reputation to uphold, being the biggest phone chat line in North America and it’s that achievement that drives us to deliver the best services to you. Whether it’s making friends, having private fun or finding the one, 1-800-Dateline are confident you will find what you’re looking for.

Who Uses 1-800-Dateline?

Fun, likeminded people like you! With 1-800-Dateline there are no room for robots or fake profiles, everybody involved in the service are human beings, right the way through to the staff and customer service teams. Real people, real fun, real love. That’s the way online dating should be!

Is There an Age Restriction?

Due to the nature of some of the conversations and the intentions some of our customers may have, all new and existing members must be at least 18 years of age to use our service.

Am I Secure?

Unlike some other online dating companies who require certain information to get started, we will never ask you to provide personal information or intimate details about your life. We leave that up to you to divulge to the people you talk to in private, so the control is always in your hands.

So How Do I Get Started?

To get started using the chatline, follow these simple steps.
  1. Call your local 1-800-Dateline phone number, which you can find on our ‘Cities Covered’ page.
  2. Personalize your greeting using our Live Connector.
  3. Whilst other people are listening to yours, feel free to listen to other member’s greetings to see who tickles your fancy!
  4. When you do find someone that catches your attention, send a message to get the conversation flowing.
  5. If you feel comfortable enough, take the next step and send/accept a connection request to take the conversation into a live, private chat.

Are People Paid to Talk to Me?

Absolutely not. As we’ve mentioned, every member using our service is a real person, so no employees or members of staff are hired to talk to you. Quite frankly, that would be cruel on you!

Is This Service Confidential?

Without a doubt! Privacy and confidentiality remain a huge part of what we do and offer. Therefore, any information a person has on you has come from you. If anonymity is what you’re going for, then you have every right to keep it that way.

How to Get Started?

Getting connected with 1-800-Dateline couldn’t be simpler! You could have a plethora of sexy, exciting singles to talk to on a day-to-day basis and you can join the party by following these instructions:
  1. It starts with a call! Dial your local 1-800-Dateline hotline number.
  2. Record your personalized greeting. This will be the introduction other callers will hear so make sure to make it witty and unique.
  3. Whilst other callers are tuning in to your greeting, you can listen to everybody else’s! If you hear something that catches your attention, send them a message. You’ll receive a message if they’re into you, too!
  4. If you find someone that you really like and the conversation is flowing like the Babylon, you can invite them to a private live chat. Don’t worry, these private chats are just that – just you and the other person can view your messages. In the background, people will still hear your greeting and have the ability to send you a line. You can view any messages left at the end of any live private chat you’re in!

What Can I/Can I Not Put in My Greeting Message?

The purpose of your greeting is to stand out, but there are rules to follow to ensure everybody feels welcomes and safe on 1-800-Dateline. Any greeting that is found to include details of illicit/illegal activities, racial/abusive language or threatening language will be removed and your account may be terminated.

I Received A Message I Really Like – What Do I Do?

After you’ve finished fanning yourself and jumping for joy, go ahead and exchange some messages! You may find out more interesting information about that person which can only enhance the connection! From there, you can go into a private chat where you can really let loose, should you wish!

Hot List – What’s It All About?

When you’re having a gander at the greeting messages and you hear one you really like, you can choose to add them to your ‘Hot List’. That way, when you come online, you will be sent a notification alongside their greeting message. From there, you can private message them, or send a request for a live chat. If anyone on your Hot List comes online and you’re offline, you will still be sent a notification message to encourage you to come online and chat!

How Do I Make My Greeting Interesting/Effective?

They say that first impressions mean a lot in the dating world and here is no different. Your greeting is your opportunity to stand out from the crowd and be heard. With that in mind, don’t rush your message. Take your time and think carefully about what you want to say. Talk about your passions, interests and what you’re looking for. Don’t talk nonsense, so it’s best attempting this sober! Afterwards, you can play your greeting back and if you don’t like it, you can simply re-record it at any time.

I Received A Message from Someone I’m Not Interested In – What Do I Do?

If you hear from someone who’s not your type, you can simply ignore it! However, if the communication is persistent you can block them by pressing ‘7’. Do you feel uncomfortable with somebody and feel like they are threatening you? You can have us review their greeting/messages by pressing ‘7’ again after blocking the individual.

Offline Messaging – What Does This Mean?

Offline messaging is where you can receive to other people’s greetings whilst they are on another call or have recently been online. Other callers can also do the same with your messages, too. Essentially, you can remain in communication with others even though they may not be online!

What is an Ice-Breaker and How Effective Are They?

Ice-breakers are really important to break the tension of the anticipated first conversation. With 1-800-Dateline, an ice-breaker is a pre-recorded message that you can send, if you feel like you’re not too confident to send a message of your own. Some callers may view it as sweet, some may prefer the confident approach! Either way, it’s a helping hand for those who may need it at first.